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The Science Of Dating by Ty Tashiro PhD

Get More — and Better — Dates in 30 Days. Backed by Science.

A Proven 4-Step System to Attract Better Matches

 
Tired of swiping with no spark?

Over second-guessing what really works in dating?
 
You deserve more than that. 
 
And yes — you can learn how to create that. There’s a method to the madness.

It’s not luck. It’s science.

 

Unlock Real Results

 

Welcome to the Science of Dating — a research-backed, no-nonsense guide to attracting quality connections.


Whether you’re looking for fun, love, or something in between, this course helps you upgrade your approach, boost your confidence, and stop wasting time on what doesn't serve you.

 

đŸ˜”â€đŸ’« Why Modern Dating Feels So Messy

Let’s be honest — it’s not that you’re bad at dating.
It’s that no one gave you the tools to deal with this version of dating.
 
đŸ“± Swipe Fatigue Is Real
Dating apps promised convenience — but what we got is swipe burnout, ghosting, and the emotional equivalent of doom-scrolling. With hundreds of profiles and nonstop messages, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, insecure, or just totally tapped out. Too many choices = zero direction. It’s not you — it’s decision overload in disguise.
 
🔁 Same Patterns, Different People
Ever feel like you're dating the same person in a different outfit? That’s your attachment patterns playing on repeat. Whether you tend to chase, shut down, or second-guess, these loops are learnable — and yes, you can break them. All it takes is awareness + a little rewiring.
 
👀 Hot, Cool
 and Totally Wrong for You
Most of us are trained to look for what’s flashy — looks, charm, status — while ignoring what actually matters in the long run. Real attraction is about more than just the spark. Traits like emotional steadiness and consistency are scientifically linked to lasting connection. Let’s make those sexy again.

 

⏱ No Time for Games (or 3-Hour Lessons)
You’re busy, and your energy is precious. You don’t need a dating philosophy — you need a smart, science-backed system that fits into real life. That’s why this course delivers in quick, 10-minute daily lessons you can actually finish and apply.

 

Upgrade Your Dating Life

"Most people are dating on autopilot. This course hands you the controls."

The Science Of Dating Method

This course isn’t just information — it’s a system.
Each step builds on the last to help you date with clarity, confidence, and actual strategy.
 
Here’s how it works:
 
🧭 Pillar 1: The Clarity Blueprint 
You can’t find what you want until you know what it is.
We start by helping you define your relationship goals, understand your patterns, and get radically honest about what actually matters to you — not what culture, apps, or past partners convinced you to settle for.
 
🧠 Pillar 2: The Modern Dating Reality Check 
Swipe culture is overwhelming on purpose — and it messes with how we choose.
This week is your reset: learn how dating apps, social media, and hookup culture distort your instincts, and how to navigate it all without burning out or giving up.
 
đŸ’«Â Pillar 3: The 3-Wish Partner Filterℱ + Personality Fit Map
We ditch long “ideal partner” lists and help you focus on what actually predicts long-term happiness.
You’ll learn how to spot undervalued traits that matter (think: emotional steadiness > abs), use your 3-Wish Filterℱ to cut through noise, and map compatibility using research-backed personality traits.
 
💛 Pillar 4: The Attachment Alignment Toolkit
Finally, the glue that holds everything together — secure connection.
This is where you learn to recognize your emotional patterns, work through your triggers, set boundaries without guilt, and create the kind of connection that feels safe and exciting.
No more ghosting cycles or anxious spirals — just grounded, clear communication.
 
 By the end of these four pillars, you won’t just know what works — you’ll have a repeatable system to date with clarity, filter with confidence, and connect like a secure version of yourself.
 
This is your dating blueprint.
Backed by science. Designed for real life.
 
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đŸ’„ What You’ll Walk Away With and Use (Like, In Real Life)

By the end of this course, you won’t just know more — you’ll date better.
Clearer mindset. Sharper instincts. Way less “what just happened?”
 
Here’s what you’ll walk away with:
 
✹ A Profile That Attracts the Right People
You’ll finally have a dating profile that actually sounds like you — not a highlight reel or generic “adventurous, loves sushi” bio. Learn how to write your profile in a way that naturally draws in people who connect with your vibe and values, so the right matches reach out first.
 
 💬 Confident Conversations That Flow
Whether you’re starting a new chat on an app or making real-life small talk, you’ll feel way more grounded and natural. Say goodbye to awkward silences, over-analyzing your replies, or feeling like you have to perform. You’ll know how to connect with confidence — and keep things moving.
 
🎯 Matches That Actually Match
No more chasing potential. You’ll learn how to attract and choose people who align with what you actually want in a relationship — not just the ones who look good on paper. Higher-quality matches. Less emotional drama. More alignment from the start.
 
🧠 Learn What Actually Creates Attraction
No, it’s not just “be hot.” You’ll understand the real psychology behind attraction — why we want who we want, and how to draw people in with authenticity, confidence, and ease. Spoiler: attraction is a skill. And you’re about to learn it.
 
đŸš© Red Flag Radar, Activated
You’ll be able to spot the subtle signs of emotional unavailability, inconsistency, and low-effort energy before you get too invested. No more “maybe I’m just overthinking” or giving people the benefit of the doubt when your gut knows better. Trust your instincts — and protect your peace.
 
đŸ§˜â€â™€ïž Boundaries That Feel Good
Setting boundaries won’t feel like a fight anymore. You’ll know how to speak your needs clearly, protect your space, and say no (or not now) without spiraling into guilt or over-explaining. Boundaries become a way to connect better — not push people away.
 
💃 Build Real, Grounded Confidence
You don’t need to be loud or extroverted to feel powerful. You’ll get tools that help you build internal confidence — so you show up in dating as the most grounded, secure version of yourself, no matter what’s happened before.
 
🔬 Understand Chemistry, Timing & Compatibility
You’ll finally get clarity on how attraction really works — from early chemistry to long-term fit. Learn how to recognize emotional alignment, spot the difference between intensity and intimacy, and stop confusing “sparks” with something sustainable.
 
🔁 Break the Pattern for Good
You’ll finally understand why you keep ending up in the same kind of situations — even when the names and faces change. Through self-awareness and guided tools, you’ll learn how to shift out of old emotional patterns and start choosing people who support the relationship you actually want.
 
You’ll walk away with more than just insight — you’ll have real tools, real confidence, and a clear strategy you can trust. No more second-guessing. No more repeating the same old patterns. Just smarter choices, stronger connections, and a dating life that finally works for you.
 
It’s not magic. It’s science, mindset, and practice.
And once you learn it — you’ll never date the same way again.
 
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UPGRADE YOUR DATING GAME IN JUST 5 WEEKS

⏱ Just 10 Minutes a Day to Upgrade Your Dating Life

You don’t need hours of theory or a psychology degree to start dating smarter.
 
In just 10 minutes a day, The Science of Dating walks you through expert-designed lessons and quick, practical exercises that help you make better — and way more intentional — dating decisions.
 
Each day, you’ll unlock a new piece of the psychology puzzle: starting with self-awareness, then diving into attraction dynamics, red flags, relationship patterns, confident decision-making, and how to set boundaries that actually stick.
 
By the end, you won’t just understand how dating works — you’ll feel more confident in your choices, more grounded in what you want, and way more equipped to build real connection (without the second-guessing).

 

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Meet Your Instructor, Ty Tashiro

Ph.D. in Psychology, Social Scientist & Author

Ty Tashiro is a psychologist and author who transforms psychological research into practical solutions for everyday relationship challenges. In his bestselling book, The Science of Happily Ever After, he introduces a smarter, research-backed approach to dating, helping people make better choices in love. His second book, Awkward, sheds light on the social struggles—and surprising strengths—of socially awkward individuals.

As a Chief Science Officer, Ty has applied psychometric strategies to online dating apps and developed AI-driven approaches for therapy platforms. He has also led research and development efforts focused on social responsibility initiatives.

Ty earned his Ph.D. in psychology from the University of Minnesota and has twice been recognized as an award-winning professor. A sought-after keynote speaker, he frequently presents at conferences, corporate events, universities, and schools across the country. He has also been a guest on popular podcasts such as A Bit of Optimism with Simon Sinek, Modern Wisdom with Chris Williamson, TED Radio Hour (NPR), Kwik Brain with Jim Kwik, and The Verywell Mind Podcast, where he shares his insights on topics like social awkwardness, love, and the science behind human connection.

A Practical Course Based On:

The Science of Happily Ever After – for only $149.99

In The Science of Happily Ever After, Dr. Ty Tashiro breaks down the psychology of choosing a romantic partner—and why so many people get it wrong. Using engaging stories and solid research, he explains how we only get “three wishes” when picking a partner, why we often waste them on the wrong traits, and how focusing on the qualities that truly matter can lead to lasting love. With wit, insight, and science, he offers a practical guide to finding your happily-ever-after. 
 
"Complete with exercises, quizzes, sound advice, and a practical yet supportive tone, Tashiro offers the closest thing to a roadmap for 'happily ever after.'"
- Publisher's Weekly(Starred Review)

Unlock the Science of Smarter Dating

Bonus 1

🧠 Science of Dating Resources

(Value: $20)
Get exclusive access to a curated library of articles, podcasts, videos, and book recommendations that dig deeper into the psychology of modern dating. These extras are handpicked to help you navigate dating with more clarity, confidence, and self-awareness — so you can make smarter choices and attract the kind of connection you actually want.

 

Bonus 2

🎓 Ty’s Personal Masterclass

(Value: $20)
Get behind-the-scenes insight from Dr. Ty Tashiro — one of the most respected voices in relationship science. In this personal masterclass, he shares key takeaways from his research, plus practical tips on attraction, communication, and creating meaningful connections — all delivered in his signature warm, relatable style.
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What People Say 

“This course helped me unlearn some pretty toxic dating habits. Now I’m in the healthiest, most honest relationship I’ve ever had. It’s not just love, it’s alignment.”
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- Jonas, 28
“I didn’t expect to meet someone this soon, but I did. And what’s wild is, I would’ve totally overlooked them before this course. I finally knew what to look for.”
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- Amy, 27
“We met two weeks after I finished the course. The difference? I showed up completely differently. Clear, confident, and calm. It changed everything.”
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- Jess, 28
“I wasn’t expecting it to work this fast, but a few weeks after finishing the course, I met someone. It feels secure, easy, and real. For once, I’m not second-guessing everything."
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- Irene, 33
“Finally, something that treats dating like a skill, not a mystery. This course made me feel empowered, not overwhelmed.”
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- Chloe, 30
“10/10. I stopped overthinking every text, and started having real conversations. The results were fast.”
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“This isn’t another ‘how to get a partner’ course. It’s a masterclass in self-awareness, communication, and actually enjoying dating.”
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- Emily, 26
“We’ve been together for 8 months now, and it keeps getting better. I credit this course for helping me get clear on what I truly wanted — and stop settling for less.”
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- Tasha, 27
“This course didn’t just improve my love life. It made me more confident in every relationship I have.”
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- Anna, 28
“I used to dread dating. Now I actually look forward to it  because I know what I’m doing.”
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- Matteo, 31
“Not preachy, not fluffy, just solid advice backed by science. And it’s actually fun to go through.”
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- Luca, 32
“I thought I was the problem. Turns out I just needed better tools.”
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- Ben, 29
“I didn’t just find a partner. I found peace. Learning how to spot red flags and trust my instincts made all the difference.”
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- Cindy, 26
“Before this, I was dating on autopilot. Now I’m in a relationship that feels secure, exciting, and real. I’m so grateful I invested in this.”
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- Kevin, 29
“I’ve done therapy, I’ve read books, but this course gave me actual tools I could use right away. It just clicked.”
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- Tasha, 30
“It’s smart, funny, and super practical. I’ve never felt more confident showing up as myself.”
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- Anton, 25
“I wish I’d taken this sooner. It saved me so much time and energy, and helped me stop dating people who weren’t a fit.”
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- Emily, 26
“I thought I had decent dating instincts,  until this course showed me why I kept choosing the same kind of wrong person in different outfits.”
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- Sarah, 28

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⭐ Full access to the 5-week Science of Dating course 
⭐ Lifetime access — revisit anytime 
⭐ Bonus 1: Curated Science of Dating Resource Library 
⭐ Bonus 2: Ty Tashiro’s Personal Masterclass 
⭐ 10-minute daily lessons, expert-designed 
⭐ No pressure, no expiry — learn at your own pace
 
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