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The Science of Dating Β· Short Course
Date smarter, not harder.
A science-backed course with Ty Tashiro, PhD, designed to help you understand modern dating, choose more intentionally, and build the kind of connection that can last.
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The Science of Dating
A smarter approach to modern love
$149.99
β Expert-led
βΆ Short lessons
β Lifetime access
Watch the trailer
See what this course is all about.
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Understand the patterns.
See why modern dating can feel confusing.
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Choose with intention.
Learn what to look for beyond chemistry.
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Build lasting connection.
Apply science-backed tools to your dating life.
The Science of Dating Β· Short Course
Date smarter, not harder.
A science-backed course with Ty Tashiro, Ph.D., designed to help you understand modern dating and build the kind of connection that can last.
Featured Course
The Science of Dating
$149.99
5-week course Β· short lessons Β· lifetime access
Expert-led
Short lessons
Lifetime access
Watch the trailer
Meet the course in under a minute.
What youβll experience
A quick look at the practical shifts this course helps you build toward β from better choices to stronger self-trust.
Smarter Choices
Focus on the partner qualities that matter most for long-term connection.
Pattern Awareness
Notice repeating dynamics, mixed signals, and attraction loops with more calm.
More Self-Trust
Make decisions with less overthinking and stronger inner confidence.
Real Compatibility
Look beyond surface chemistry and understand what supports a healthier fit.
Practical Tools
Use science-backed exercises you can apply to real dating choices.
What youβll experience
Small shifts for calmer, smarter dating.
Learn how to understand attraction, notice patterns, and make decisions with more self-trust.
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Clarify what matters
Identify the partner qualities that support a real, lasting relationship.
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Understand mixed signals
Step back from uncertainty without getting pulled into overthinking.
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Look beyond chemistry
Learn what attraction can β and cannot β tell you about long-term fit.
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Choose with self-trust
Use practical reflection tools to make dating decisions that feel grounded.
Built for real life: short lessons, simple frameworks, and ideas you can apply as you date.
Why modern dating feels so hard
Youβre not doing it wrong. The rules have changed.
Dating today can feel confusing, fast-moving, and emotionally exhausting. This course helps you step back from the noise and approach love with more calm, confidence, and intention.
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Outdated advice
Much of the dating advice people hear is based on old rules, vague clichΓ©s, or one-size-fits-all formulas.
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Mixed signals
Endless swiping, texting, and uncertainty can make it difficult to know what someone really wants.
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Repeating patterns
Itβs easy to keep choosing the same kind of person, even when the same story keeps ending badly.
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Chemistry confusion
Attraction matters, but chemistry alone does not tell you who is likely to be right for your life.
The smarter shift
From guessing and hoping to choosing with intention.
The Science of Dating gives you a practical, psychology-based framework for understanding what matters, what to look for, and how to make better choices in your dating life.
$149.99
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1
Understand the modern dating landscape
See why dating feels harder now and what psychology can teach you about it.
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Recognize who is truly right for you
Move beyond surface-level chemistry and learn what qualities matter long term.
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Apply practical tools to real dating choices
Use simple frameworks to date with more confidence, calm, and direction.
Why dating feels so hard
Youβre not doing it wrong. Dating has changed.
Apps, vague advice, and chemistry-first decisions can make it hard to know what to trust. This course helps you step back and approach dating with more calm and intention.
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Advice can feel vague
Rules and clichΓ©s rarely help you understand your own patterns or what you truly need.
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Choice can feel endless
More options do not always make dating easier β they can make every decision feel less certain.
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Attraction can mislead
Chemistry matters, but it cannot tell you everything about long-term fit.
The smarter shift
From hoping it works to knowing what to look for.
The Science of Dating gives you a practical psychology-based framework for recognizing real fit, making better choices, and dating with more self-trust.
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Understand what has changed in dating
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Recognize the qualities that matter long term
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Apply simple tools to real dating choices
$149.99
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What youβll learn
Learn what really supports lasting connection.
The Science of Dating helps you move beyond mixed signals and surface-level attraction, so you can understand your patterns, choose with more self-trust, and date with greater intention.
Youβll leave with
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A better filter for partner choice
Know which traits matter most for long-term compatibility.
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A calmer way to read dating signals
Separate real potential from uncertainty, pressure, or overthinking.
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Practical tools you can keep using
Apply simple psychology-backed frameworks to your real dating life.
Dating on autopilot
When choices feel uncertain.
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Reading into mixed signals
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Chasing chemistry alone
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Falling into familiar patterns
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Ignoring long-term fit
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Dating with intention
When choices feel more grounded.
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Know what matters most
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Notice healthier signals
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Choose with self-trust
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Build stronger connection
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This is not about rigid dating rules. Itβs about using psychology to understand what supports a relationship that feels safe, steady, and real.
Ready to make wiser dating choices?
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What youβll learn
A practical way to understand real compatibility.
This course turns dating psychology into decisions you can actually use β who to give time to, what to pay attention to, and when to step back.
The shift inside the course
Before
Reacting to chemistry and uncertainty.
Dating can start to feel like reading signs, waiting for replies, or hoping the connection becomes clear.
After
Using a clearer framework for compatibility.
Learn how to think about partner choice, personality, and emotional patterns with more steadiness.
Youβll practice
1
Filtering for the right qualities
Understand which traits matter most for long-term compatibility.
2
Separating potential from pressure
Notice when attraction, urgency, or uncertainty is driving your choices.
3
Applying tools to real dating life
Use simple exercises and reflection prompts you can return to anytime.
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Not rigid dating rules. A psychology-based way to understand yourself, your patterns, and what supports lasting love.
Ready to make wiser dating choices?
Get lifetime access to The Science of Dating.
$149.99
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Author & psychologist
Research-backed dating advice you can actually use.
Based on his book
The Science of Happily Ever After
A smarter, research-backed approach to dating β and understanding the traits that matter most for lasting connection.
Featured on podcasts including
- A Bit of Optimism
- Modern Wisdom
- TED Radio Hour
- Kwik Brain
- Verywell Mind
Meet your guide
Learn from Ty Tashiro.
Ph.D. in Psychology, Social Scientist & Author
Ty Tashiro is a psychologist and author who transforms psychological research into practical solutions for everyday relationship challenges. In his bestselling book, The Science of Happily Ever After, Ty introduces a smarter, research-backed approach to dating, helping people make better choices in love. Tyβs second book, Awkward, explores the social struggles β and surprising strengths β of socially awkward individuals.
As a Chief Science Officer, Ty has applied psychometric strategies to online dating apps and developed AI-driven approaches for therapy platforms. Ty has also led research and development efforts focused on social responsibility initiatives.
Ty earned his Ph.D. in psychology from the University of Minnesota and has twice been recognized as an award-winning professor. A sought-after keynote speaker, Ty frequently presents at conferences, corporate events, universities, and schools. Ty has also been featured on popular podcasts such as A Bit of Optimism, Modern Wisdom, TED Radio Hour, Kwik Brain, and The Verywell Mind Podcast, where Ty shares insights on love, social awkwardness, and the science behind human connection.
Why this matters
Youβre not just getting opinions about dating β youβre learning a research-backed way to choose with more confidence.
What Ty helps you do in this course
Understand your patterns, look beyond surface-level chemistry, notice healthier signals, and make more intentional dating choices β without turning love into a rigid set of rules.
Buy This Course
$149.99
Meet your guide
Learn from Ty Tashiro, Ph.D.
Psychologist, social scientist, and author
Ty Tashiro translates psychological research into practical guidance for dating, relationships, and human connection. In this course, he helps you think more clearly about partner choice, compatibility, and the patterns that shape your dating life.
Based on his book
The Science of Happily Ever After
A research-backed approach to dating and lasting connection.
Why this matters
You are not just getting opinions about dating. You are learning a research-backed way to choose with more confidence.
Featured on podcasts including
- A Bit of Optimism
- Modern Wisdom
- TED Radio Hour
- Kwik Brain
- Verywell Mind
What Ty helps you do
Understand partner choice through psychology, notice what supports healthier connection, and date with more intention β without turning love into a rigid formula.
Buy This Course
$149.99
Is this course for you?
For anyone ready to date with more intention.
This course is for people who want to understand dating with more depth β not through games or vague rules, but through psychology, self-awareness, and smarter relationship choices.
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This course is a good fit if you...
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Feel tired of confusing dating advice
You want something more grounded than clichΓ©s, games, or βjust trust your gut.β
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Keep choosing the same patterns
You want to understand why certain dynamics repeat β and how to choose differently.
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Want to look beyond chemistry
You know attraction matters, but you want to understand what supports lasting connection.
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Are ready to date more intentionally
You want practical tools to help you make more confident, calmer, wiser choices in love.
The promise
Less guessing. More self-trust.
The goal is not to make dating feel mechanical. It is to help you understand yourself, the other person, and the qualities that make a relationship more likely to work.
This may not be for you if...
- You want quick tricks, scripts, or manipulation tactics.
- You are looking for therapy or crisis support.
- You want guaranteed outcomes instead of practical education.
Ready to bring more science into your dating life?
Get lifetime access to The Science of Dating.
$149.99
Buy This Course
Is this course for you?
For anyone ready to date with more intention.
This course is for people who want more than vague dating advice. It is built around psychology, self-awareness, and smarter relationship choices.
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This course is a good fit if you...
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Want advice that feels grounded
You prefer research-backed insight over clichΓ©s, games, or generic rules.
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Want to understand your choices
You are curious about why you are drawn to certain people or dynamics.
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Care about long-term fit
You want to look at compatibility, not just chemistry or early excitement.
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Are ready for practical reflection
You want tools that help you make calmer, more thoughtful choices in love.
The promise
Dating that feels more thoughtful.
The goal is not to make love feel mechanical. It is to help you understand what matters, what to notice, and how to choose with more confidence.
This may not be for you if...
- You want quick tricks, scripts, or manipulation tactics.
- You are looking for therapy, crisis support, or personal coaching.
- You want guaranteed outcomes rather than practical education.
Feel like this is the right fit?
Get lifetime access to The Science of Dating.
$149.99
Buy This Course
Inside the course
A science-backed 5-week path to better dating.
The Science of Dating is designed to fit into real life: short daily lessons, practical exercises, and a guided weekly path that moves you from self-awareness to smarter partner choice, stronger boundaries, and more secure connection.
5
Weekly modules
10
Minutes a day
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Lifetime access
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Short video lessons
Learn in focused, digestible sessions designed for busy people.
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Practical exercises
Apply each idea to your own dating patterns, preferences, and choices.
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Dating frameworks
Use tools like the 3-Wish Partner Filter and Personality Fit Map.
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Bonus resources
Extra recommendations and masterclass-style insight to deepen your learning.
Explore the curriculum
Each week builds on the last, helping you identify what you want, understand the modern dating landscape, choose with more intention, and create safer, healthier connection.
The Clarity Blueprint
1
Define your relationship goals, values, and what βright for youβ actually means β before apps, culture, or past patterns tell you what to settle for.
The Modern Dating Reality Check
2
Understand how dating apps, social media, choice overload, and modern dating culture can distort your instincts β and learn how to navigate them with less burnout.
The 3-Wish Partner Filter
3
Move beyond long βideal partnerβ lists and learn how to focus on the traits that matter most for long-term happiness, compatibility, and emotional steadiness.
The Personality Fit Map
4
Learn how personality shapes relationship dynamics, how to better understand your own traits, and how to evaluate compatibility beyond surface-level attraction.
The Attachment Alignment Toolkit
5
Recognize emotional patterns, understand attachment dynamics, communicate more clearly, and build connection that feels safe, grounded, and exciting.
Start The Science of Dating today.
Get lifetime access to the full 5-week course and learn how to date with more confidence, calm, and intention.
$149.99
Buy This Course
Inside the course
A science-backed 5-week path to better dating.
The Science of Dating is designed for real life: short daily lessons, practical exercises, and a guided weekly path from self-awareness to smarter partner choice.
5
Weekly modules
10
Minutes a day
β
Lifetime access
βΆ
Short video lessons
Focused sessions designed for busy people.
β
Practical exercises
Apply each idea to your own dating patterns and choices.
β‘
Dating frameworks
Use tools like the 3-Wish Partner Filter and Personality Fit Map.
β¦
Bonus resources
Extra recommendations and masterclass-style insights.
Explore the curriculum
Each week builds on the last, helping you understand what you want, what to notice, and how to choose with more intention.
Week 1 The Clarity Blueprint +
Define your relationship goals, values, and what βright for youβ actually means before apps, culture, or past patterns shape your choices.
Week 2 The Modern Dating Reality Check +
Understand how dating apps, social media, choice overload, and modern dating culture can distort your instincts and create burnout.
Week 3 The 3-Wish Partner Filter +
Move beyond long ideal partner lists and focus on the traits that matter most for happiness, compatibility, and emotional steadiness.
Week 4 The Personality Fit Map +
Learn how personality shapes relationship dynamics and how to evaluate compatibility beyond surface-level attraction.
Week 5 The Attachment Alignment Toolkit +
Recognize emotional patterns, understand attachment dynamics, communicate more clearly, and build connection that feels grounded.
Start The Science of Dating today.
Get lifetime access to the full 5-week course.
$149.99
Buy This Course
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Start with this course, or explore the full Infijoy library.
Choose the option that fits how you want to learn. Buy The Science of Dating for focused lifetime access, or explore membership if you want access to more Infijoy courses across wellbeing, confidence, relationships, mindfulness, and personal growth.
Buy The Science of Dating
Ideal if you want one focused, research-backed course to help you date with more clarity, confidence, and intention.
$149.99
one-time payment
- βLifetime access to the full 5-week course
- βShort video lessons designed to fit into real life
- βPractical exercises and dating frameworks
- βLearn at your own pace on desktop or mobile
Buy This Course
Focused access to The Science of Dating.
Explore Infijoy Membership
Ideal if you want to keep learning across multiple areas of wellbeing, relationships, confidence, mindfulness, and personal growth.
From $24.99
/ month ($299.99 per year)
- βAccess to the wider Infijoy course library
- βCourses across relationships, stress, happiness, confidence, and more
- βShort, expert-led lessons you can complete at your own pace
- βA better option if you want ongoing personal growth support
Explore Membership
Membership starts from $24.99/month ($299.99 per year).
β
No rigid dating rules
Learn principles you can apply to your own life and relationship goals.
β‘
Designed for real life
Short lessons make it easier to stay consistent and actually finish.
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Keep coming back
Revisit the course whenever you want to refresh your dating clarity.
Choose your access
Buy this course, or explore the full Infijoy library.
Choose focused lifetime access to The Science of Dating, or join Infijoy Membership if you want more courses across wellbeing, relationships, mindfulness, and personal growth.
Buy The Science of Dating
Ideal if you want one focused, research-backed course to help you date with more clarity, confidence, and intention.
$149.99
one-time payment
- βLifetime access to the full 5-week course
- βShort video lessons for busy schedules
- βPractical exercises and dating frameworks
- βLearn at your own pace on desktop or mobile
Buy This Course
Focused access to The Science of Dating.
Explore Infijoy Membership
Ideal if you want ongoing access to courses across relationships, confidence, stress, happiness, mindfulness, and more.
From $24.99
/ month ($299.99 per year)
- βAccess to the wider Infijoy course library
- βCourses across wellbeing, relationships, and personal growth
- βShort, expert-led lessons you can complete at your own pace
- βA good option if you want ongoing learning support
Explore Membership
Membership starts from $24.99/month ($299.99 per year).
β
No rigid dating rules
Learn principles you can apply to your own life and relationship goals.
β‘
Designed for real life
Short lessons make it easier to stay consistent and finish the course.
β
Revisit anytime
Come back whenever you want to review the ideas or reset your approach.
Questions before you start?
Everything you may want to know before joining.
A helpful look at whatβs included, who the course is for, and how The Science of Dating helps you bring more psychology, confidence, and intention into your dating life.
1 What is The Science of Dating?
The Science of Dating is a 5-week online course taught by Ty Tashiro, Ph.D. It helps you understand modern dating, attraction, compatibility, patterns, and partner choice through a practical psychology-based lens.
2 Who is this course for?
This course is for anyone who wants to date with more confidence and intention β especially if you feel tired of vague dating advice, repeating the same patterns, or relying only on chemistry to decide who is right for you.
3 How long does the course take?
The course is structured as a 5-week path with short lessons designed to fit into real life. You can follow the weekly journey or move at your own pace.
4 What will I learn inside the course?
Youβll learn how to understand modern dating dynamics, think more clearly about partner choice, look beyond chemistry, explore personality fit, and recognize attachment patterns that shape connection.
5 Do I get lifetime access?
Yes β when you buy The Science of Dating as an individual course, you receive lifetime access to the lessons, exercises, frameworks, and bonus resources.
6 Is this therapy or dating coaching?
No. This is an educational course, not therapy, crisis support, or personal dating coaching. It gives you research-backed tools and ideas for learning, reflection, and more intentional choices.
7 What do I get when I buy this course?
You get lifetime access to the full 5-week course, including short video lessons, practical exercises, dating frameworks, and bonus resources designed to help you apply what you learn to real dating life.
Questions before you start?
Everything you may want to know before joining.
A helpful look at whatβs included, who the course is for, and how The Science of Dating helps you bring more psychology, confidence, and intention into your dating life.
1 What is The Science of Dating? +
The Science of Dating is a 5-week online course taught by Ty Tashiro, Ph.D. It helps you understand modern dating, attraction, compatibility, patterns, and partner choice through a practical psychology-based lens.
2 Who is this course for? +
This course is for anyone who wants to date with more confidence and intention β especially if you feel tired of vague dating advice, repeating the same patterns, or relying only on chemistry to decide who is right for you.
3 How long does the course take? +
The course is structured as a 5-week path with short lessons designed to fit into real life. You can follow the weekly journey or move at your own pace.
4 What will I learn inside the course? +
Youβll learn how to understand modern dating dynamics, think more clearly about partner choice, look beyond chemistry, explore personality fit, and recognize attachment patterns that shape connection.
5 Do I get lifetime access? +
Yes β when you buy The Science of Dating as an individual course, you receive lifetime access to the lessons, exercises, frameworks, and bonus resources.
6 Is this therapy or dating coaching? +
No. This is an educational course, not therapy, crisis support, or personal dating coaching. It gives you research-backed tools and ideas for learning, reflection, and more intentional choices.
7 What do I get when I buy this course? +
You get lifetime access to the full 5-week course, including short video lessons, practical exercises, dating frameworks, and bonus resources designed to help you apply what you learn to real dating life.
Ready to begin?
Choose with more confidence.
Get lifetime access to The Science of Dating and learn practical, research-backed tools for dating with more calm, self-trust, and intention.
$149.99 Β· Lifetime access
Buy This Course
Not about rules. About better choices.
The goal is not to make dating mechanical β itβs to help you understand yourself, your patterns, and the qualities that support lasting connection.
Begin today
Ready to date with more clarity?
Join The Science of Dating and learn a calmer, research-backed way to understand attraction, recognize what matters, and build stronger connection.
β 5-week course
β Short daily lessons
β Lifetime access
Individual course purchase includes lifetime access to The Science of Dating.
Featured course
The Science of Dating
$149.99
5
weekly modules
10
minutes a day
β
lifetime access
Begin today
Ready to date with more clarity?
Join The Science of Dating and learn a calmer, research-backed way to understand attraction, recognize what matters, and build stronger connection.
β 5-week course
β Short daily lessons
β Lifetime access
Individual course purchase includes lifetime access to The Science of Dating.
Featured course
The Science of Dating
$149.99
5
weekly modules
10
minutes a day
β
lifetime access